Shar is not married and never had a husband. However, she was engaged to Kevin Federline with whom she had two children a daughter Kori Federline and a son, Kaleb Jackson Federline. The couple broke their engagement due to Federline’s relationship with pop singer Britney Spears.
Shar also had two other children with her high school ex-boyfriend Corey. She had a son, Donnie Jackson, and a daughter, Cassie Jackson.