In 2014, Julia married Martina after multiple years of dating and cohabitating. Although Julia has often shared how Martina is her perfect match, her other exes are less known.

One of Julia’s more notable long-term romances was in 1997 with European banker Edouard Stern, per Vanity Fair. Julia’s ex was deemed one of the richest men in Europe and showered Julia with expensive gifts and trips around the world. In 1999, Julia became pregnant with their son, Maximilien Stern.

Julia and Edouard began having trouble after Maximillien’s birth when he reportedly doubted their son was his. Then, in 2000, tragedy struck when Maximilien died of shaken baby syndrome after being in a nanny’s care for just a few months on Earth.

Daily Mail reported in 2010 that Julia believed Maximilien died because Edouard was “a leading member of Paris society involved in a frighteningly risky social scene.” Five years after her son’s death, her baby’s father, Edouard, was found dead in his apartment with multiple bullets.

After losing Maximilien and Edouard, Julia continued raising her two daughters. However, according to Page Six, Julia has never revealed who her daughter, Victoria’s (b. 2000) father, And while Victoria’s dad isn’t visible, Julia had another long-term relationship with her daughter, Emma’s father, cosmetics CEO and the owner of Clarins, Christian Courtin-Clarin.