Unlike some other couples on The Ultimatum: Queer Love that have been consistently dating for years, Mildred and Tiff’s connection was incredibly on and off.

The duo had met nearly two years before entering the marriage experiment, but their time together was turbulent, to say the least.

Funnily enough, Tiff met Mildred by searching #LesbianLatina on Instagram while feeling “lonely” and “single” and coming across her account. After DMing her, the couple entered a spotty relationship characterized by breakups, constant uncertainty, and poor communication.

And now Mildred is the one issuing her partner an ultimatum.