You'll be surprised to learn that 2023 marked the couple’s 21st year together, having first met on a blind date set up by friends at a karaoke bar back in 2002.

Since then, Jim has thanked Todd in his award acceptance speeches, the duo has walked red carpets together, and they’ve been blissful dog parents.

But, of course, like anyone in a long-term committed relationship, everyone and their mother wanted to know when they were going to tie the knot. Jim was hounded relentlessly on talk shows and at events about when he and Todd would set the date.

A credit to his will and desire to keep aspects of his relationship and life private, Jim deftly avoided giving information he didn’t want to go public.

Then, Jim and Todd surprised the Hollywood scene – but also didn’t because everyone knew it was just a matter of time – and got married in May of 2017 at the Rainbow Room in New York City. The couple celebrated their sixth anniversary in spring 2023.