In 1989, the Buffy The Vampire Slayer actress married Chandi Heffner, the adopted daughter of late American heiress Doris Duke. They met for the first time in Hawaii. In an interview with Vanity Fair, Reubens said that they married in an unplanned “mock wedding ceremony” at dinner.
In the aftermath of his divorce, Reubens began dating TV personality Debi Mazar in 1993. She helped him re-enter the industry after his arrests. They were together for almost two years before ending their relationship peacefully.
Since then, Reubens has not been associated with anyone. He’s also been tight-lipped about his romantic situation, fueling LGBT speculations. The actor from The Blacklist, on the other hand, has kept mum on the subject.