Snow first found out about her husband's activities on the show when she watched Selling the OC's first season. During the season, it was revealed he had close encounters with Cardona and Alex Hall.
With Cardona, it was not just one incident but a chain of events. According to her, she and Stanaland had been flirting back and forth for a while.
Then, once when she was drunk, she tried to kiss him. Both of them later revealed that nothing happened between the two as he backed off. She apologized to him on the show, and for his part, he admitted it was a "wild night" and the incident had made him feel uncomfortable.
He even felt like his time on the show with the group was "like summer camp" and that "It really felt like brother, sister vibes in most of our opinions. It never felt that way, but I can’t speak for her."
With Hall, it was one particular incident where she gave him a "nosey" — put her mouth over his nose and exhaled. Polly Brindle, another cast member, went skinny dipping, adding another layer to the whole story.
Snow and Stanaland decided to keep their personal and professional lives separate and not reveal much, way before he became an overnight star with the Netflix show's success. And they decided to do the same with this fiasco — keep her reaction out of the media.
The couple's time together began on Instagram after he reached out to her with a "really lame pickup line." The dad joke clearly worked as their romance progressed very quickly — they got engaged in February 2019 and got married on March 14, 2020.