Although many of us have made Paul into our fake true crime boyfriend, he is unfortunately married. Not only that, but he and his wife reportedly share two daughters. However, Paul likes to keep his personal life pretty quiet. Even for his daughter’s wedding, when he posted a photo, he cropped their faces out.

Although Paul doesn’t talk much about his wife, he has mentioned her a few times in interviews. When discussing his new following of fans, E! Online reports that he mentioned his wife to the podcast My Favorite Murder. “She's been a great sport about it. She's the one who's actually watching and letting me know ... she's been great about it," he said of how his wife feels about his fanbase.