After Amanda explained to Razvan that she wanted to leave Romania early to be with her children, her partner dropped a bomb she couldn’t have possibly anticipated.

Razvan revealed that he was interviewing for a tourist visa to spend time with her in the United States — and her reaction was less than ideal for Razvan.

“That’s not realistic,” Amanda told her partner. “I need to see. I have to consider talking with Junior and Leah, letting them know, ‘How will you feel if Razvan comes here to visit?’ I have to think of my kids. And I think it’s just way too soon.”

To make matters worse for the couple, when Razvan posed the idea of giving Amanda a key to his apartment, she immediately shut him down. She explained that she would likely not return to Romania any time soon, much to her partner’s dismay.

And with Amanda telling Razvan that his coming to stay with her in the United States was not in the cards, it seems that the duo’s in-person relationship will arrive at a standstill.

90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days airs Sundays at 8 p.m. EST on TLC.